porn and women

[downbeatplumb]

I’m divided on the porn issue.  My husband and I watch it together from time to time, which can be fun.  On the other hand, I have seen some behind the scenes videos that exposed a lot of abuse toward the female during the filming of a video, so that concerns me.  Another objection I have is that porn really doesn’t take any care with the woman’s pleasure.  It’s all...guys slapping girls between the legs, gagging them with their dicks, and a lot of horrible overacting.  I find it hard to believe many female counterparts derive any pleasure from moves that clearly only serve the purpose of visually stimulating the male viewer.  It would be refreshing to watch a porno that truely focused on the pleasure of the woman for once.  As far as society as a whole, I don’t think it has any overreaching negative effects.

Indeed there seems to be a lot of dark porn.

I want to see all parties enjoying themselves. I don't want to watch something that if it was happening in front of me I'd feel the need to intervene in, even if it is staged.