Both men and women are sexual *beings*. Both can 'use' the other for sex and *also* regard the other as people. Both can have their fantasies that are completely unrealistic.
For some people, sexuality and power are deeply linked. For others, they are not. For some, sex is just an act like any other. For others, it's only with certain people. For some, porn can enhance a relationship. For others, it pushes people away.
And yes, religion is *at least* as dangerous as porn. It isn't from porn that you get people flying air planes into buildings. It isn't from porn that you get sectarian killings and bigotry. it isn't because of porn that you have parents denying medical treatments to children.
But, like almost any human endeavor, there are those who should not partake of porn. It can mess a vulnerable person up. But so can alcohol, gambling, dieting, or religion.
For some people, sexuality and power are deeply linked. For others, they are not. For some, sex is just an act like any other. For others, it's only with certain people. For some, porn can enhance a relationship. For others, it pushes people away.
And yes, religion is *at least* as dangerous as porn. It isn't from porn that you get people flying air planes into buildings. It isn't from porn that you get sectarian killings and bigotry. it isn't because of porn that you have parents denying medical treatments to children.
But, like almost any human endeavor, there are those who should not partake of porn. It can mess a vulnerable person up. But so can alcohol, gambling, dieting, or religion.
