porn and women

[John V]

Again, I don't know what to tell you. That's never been the case for me. I've always been in long-term relationships. My first marriage ended because of abuse, not because of porn use, even though we both used it. I have no problem with the quality of sex or ability to orgasm. I'm not lonely. I don't know of anyone who has had those kinds of side effects. I wonder what kind of sample groups they used to get those results.

Er, as human behavior rarely has the same effects in 100% of cases, you don't have to say anything at all.

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Also, I want to add that they talk about starting or increasing use of pornography after the relationship has begun. Could it be that people just use porn more when they're in shitty relationships? Hmmm.

That's probably true in some cases. Same with adultery. Either way, I'd say the better way to deal with a bad relationship is to work on the relationship.