It sounds like your sex drive isn't very high and you've had a good experience in terms of meeting someone you like but it's kind of spoiled it because now you compare everyone to that person.
If your sex drive were higher than I imagine you'd have more of a drive to want to have sex and you wouldn't care as much that you like the personality of these other women less.
How you approach a relationship in terms of hook ups is down to your sex drive then if you choose that route you just better be careful with condoms and meeting psycho women.
Looking for something long term I think you should keep an open mind and not focus too much on ticking very specific boxes.
I also recommend you watch Chris Rock because he does amazing stand up on how you're never going to find your perfect soul mate and everyone in his audience isn't with their first choice of partner, pretty much hitting the nail on the head for this topic.
After years of hooking up I can relate to you in the sense that I know good looking funny girls in work now who I chat to. So when I meet a girl outside of work they're competing to be at least as funny as the girls in work or I just think to myself apart from the sex I'd rather be in work and be getting paid to talk to someone who I like more.
But I had years of hooking up to get it out of my system and I have kids with a girl who I do find to be funnier and better looking than the girls in work but we have our ups and downs and we aren't soul mates, whatever that means.
If your sex drive were higher than I imagine you'd have more of a drive to want to have sex and you wouldn't care as much that you like the personality of these other women less.
How you approach a relationship in terms of hook ups is down to your sex drive then if you choose that route you just better be careful with condoms and meeting psycho women.
Looking for something long term I think you should keep an open mind and not focus too much on ticking very specific boxes.
I also recommend you watch Chris Rock because he does amazing stand up on how you're never going to find your perfect soul mate and everyone in his audience isn't with their first choice of partner, pretty much hitting the nail on the head for this topic.
After years of hooking up I can relate to you in the sense that I know good looking funny girls in work now who I chat to. So when I meet a girl outside of work they're competing to be at least as funny as the girls in work or I just think to myself apart from the sex I'd rather be in work and be getting paid to talk to someone who I like more.
But I had years of hooking up to get it out of my system and I have kids with a girl who I do find to be funnier and better looking than the girls in work but we have our ups and downs and we aren't soul mates, whatever that means.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
