Gotta do what works for you. People are all different as are their wants and desires .
I’ve had some intesnse short relationships in the past with women who were my ‘ideal’ but it didn’t pan out for one reason or another. I met my fiancé (who I’ve been with for 12 years) on a night out completely by random. We didn’t ‘match’ as well as the previous women I’d been with but it developed into what we have today.
So is there such a thing as ‘the one’? No. Is there even such a thing as an ideal partner? I doubt it. Even what you think you want might not necessarily be what you get, and the same goes for any prospective partners. There’s probably (definitely) a complex science behind it but just going with the flow and letting things happen usually brings results (in my very narrow experience). And if you don’t give things a chance, you’ll never know.
I’ve had some intesnse short relationships in the past with women who were my ‘ideal’ but it didn’t pan out for one reason or another. I met my fiancé (who I’ve been with for 12 years) on a night out completely by random. We didn’t ‘match’ as well as the previous women I’d been with but it developed into what we have today.
So is there such a thing as ‘the one’? No. Is there even such a thing as an ideal partner? I doubt it. Even what you think you want might not necessarily be what you get, and the same goes for any prospective partners. There’s probably (definitely) a complex science behind it but just going with the flow and letting things happen usually brings results (in my very narrow experience). And if you don’t give things a chance, you’ll never know.
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