(October 12, 2018 at 9:48 pm)Macoleco Wrote: So what is your opinion? None of the options satisfy me. What I want is to have a girlfriend that I genuinely like and do activities such as traveling, etc., and not just sex. If your reply will be "Just get a gf and see how it goes", then I ask you, what makes her different from the rest? Since she is the same as any other girl, just prettier or uglier.
Well, you have to start somewhere, no?
IMO, it's hard to get a person you're infatuated with to love you back. After all, your infatuation is sometimes an indicator that you have subconsciously noted they don't like you back the way you do, and such infatuation only makes one come off as desperate, further driving the loved target away. If there is mutual love/like between the two parties, there will be no need for the infatuation part. Again, MO.
