RE: How to approach relationships?
October 16, 2018 at 12:09 am
(This post was last modified: October 16, 2018 at 12:11 am by Whateverist.)
My advice is not to focus excessively on winning some girl's approval. It is equally important that you find out enough about them to know if they really interest you. Both are important.
Most of us need both to know at least one other person intimately and also to be known intimately by another. Not everyone we like will like us back and not everyone who likes you will satisfy you. So be gentle, if someone turns out not to be right for you, let them down easy. And if they are the one to realize you're not for them, be grateful for finding out so you can move on in your search. No one is a meanie for not being attracted to who you are, but some can be jerks about it. (Don't be that guy.)
When you are getting to know someone, you can set the tone by being honest about yourself. Often that will be appreciated and they'll take some risks too. If you really want that relationship, just get started interacting. Listen carefully to learn who they really are .. and try not to stare at her cleavage.
Most of us need both to know at least one other person intimately and also to be known intimately by another. Not everyone we like will like us back and not everyone who likes you will satisfy you. So be gentle, if someone turns out not to be right for you, let them down easy. And if they are the one to realize you're not for them, be grateful for finding out so you can move on in your search. No one is a meanie for not being attracted to who you are, but some can be jerks about it. (Don't be that guy.)
When you are getting to know someone, you can set the tone by being honest about yourself. Often that will be appreciated and they'll take some risks too. If you really want that relationship, just get started interacting. Listen carefully to learn who they really are .. and try not to stare at her cleavage.
