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Coming out as genderfluid on this forum
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum
What exactly is Gender-fluid?

For me I never really cared if I'm called male or female, given my short hair, boyish style of clothing I've been called by many customers in my retail store 'he' that boy' and 'sir'. I never really did care if someone saw me as a boy or a girl, I felt I should be seen for who I am not what sex I was.
Though I'll admit it's rather humorous when the customer says 'Thank you sir.' and I reply with the 'your welcome, have a nice day.' they get flustered and say 'I mean ma'am.'
And yes, I reassure them I have nothing against them saying 'sir' to me when they try to apologize profusely for saying 'sir' or suggesting I was a boy. Though I do live in a very conservative area. I get asked sometimes as to why I have short hair, simply put it's just easier to take care of as my hair is naturally thick and heavy, so having it long is painful in summer heat much less washing it.

Whoops I'm ranting again. But really, what would make a person genderfluid?
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by tackattack - December 17, 2018 at 7:01 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 7:56 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 8:31 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Aliza - December 17, 2018 at 5:42 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by I_am_not_mafia - December 17, 2018 at 10:07 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Angrboda - December 18, 2018 at 10:22 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 17, 2018 at 10:30 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nay_Sayer - December 17, 2018 at 12:26 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by AFTT47 - December 17, 2018 at 8:30 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Aliza - December 17, 2018 at 6:02 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Grandizer - December 17, 2018 at 8:16 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by onlinebiker - December 17, 2018 at 8:24 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 17, 2018 at 9:15 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nay_Sayer - December 17, 2018 at 12:27 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 17, 2018 at 5:16 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nay_Sayer - December 18, 2018 at 12:05 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 9:29 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nay_Sayer - December 17, 2018 at 1:58 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 9:41 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 17, 2018 at 9:55 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by I_am_not_mafia - December 17, 2018 at 10:04 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 10:04 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 17, 2018 at 10:11 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Jackalope - December 17, 2018 at 10:16 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Angrboda - December 17, 2018 at 10:05 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 10:20 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 17, 2018 at 10:41 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 10:38 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by I_am_not_mafia - December 17, 2018 at 11:37 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by unsapien - December 17, 2018 at 4:25 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 5:56 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by unsapien - December 17, 2018 at 6:17 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by brewer - December 17, 2018 at 7:21 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Angrboda - December 17, 2018 at 10:59 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by tackattack - December 17, 2018 at 11:50 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 11:50 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Angrboda - December 17, 2018 at 11:58 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 17, 2018 at 11:59 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 12:17 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nay_Sayer - December 17, 2018 at 1:00 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 5:17 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by DodosAreDead - December 17, 2018 at 12:21 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Tiberius - December 17, 2018 at 12:27 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Rev. Rye - December 17, 2018 at 1:18 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by tackattack - December 17, 2018 at 3:29 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 17, 2018 at 6:06 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 5:23 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 17, 2018 at 5:56 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by no one - December 17, 2018 at 6:02 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 17, 2018 at 6:27 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by onlinebiker - December 17, 2018 at 7:26 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Aliza - December 17, 2018 at 10:34 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Fireball - December 17, 2018 at 11:04 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 17, 2018 at 8:19 pm
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 17, 2018 at 8:25 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 17, 2018 at 8:52 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by ignoramus - December 18, 2018 at 3:53 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 4:11 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 4:11 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 4:14 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 4:36 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 5:03 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 5:34 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 7:22 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 7:46 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 8:01 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 8:34 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 8:48 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 9:43 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 18, 2018 at 9:48 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 9:58 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Peebo-Thuhlu - December 18, 2018 at 10:02 am
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 18, 2018 at 10:08 am
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 10:33 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 12:02 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Mr.Obvious - December 18, 2018 at 4:51 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 5:08 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 5:26 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 6:06 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 5:41 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 6:19 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 6:30 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 6:40 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 6:52 am
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 18, 2018 at 7:14 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Nakara - December 18, 2018 at 9:28 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 7:15 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Peebo-Thuhlu - December 18, 2018 at 9:50 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Fireball - December 18, 2018 at 12:10 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 2:52 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Fireball - December 18, 2018 at 3:42 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 3:52 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 5:04 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Cod - December 18, 2018 at 6:22 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 6:49 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 18, 2018 at 7:15 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 7:29 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 18, 2018 at 7:27 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 18, 2018 at 7:58 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 18, 2018 at 8:00 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 18, 2018 at 10:03 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 18, 2018 at 11:52 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by LadyForCamus - December 20, 2018 at 11:55 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Huggy Bear - December 22, 2018 at 11:11 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 19, 2018 at 1:23 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Jade-Green Stone - December 20, 2018 at 11:27 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Fireball - December 21, 2018 at 12:23 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 24, 2018 at 2:41 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 21, 2018 at 12:10 am
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by onlinebiker - December 21, 2018 at 1:20 pm
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 22, 2018 at 11:16 pm
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Shell B - December 23, 2018 at 11:36 pm
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Grandizer - December 23, 2018 at 11:43 pm
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 24, 2018 at 4:40 am
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RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 24, 2018 at 5:12 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 24, 2018 at 5:38 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by bennyboy - December 24, 2018 at 5:47 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 24, 2018 at 5:56 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Maketakunai - December 24, 2018 at 6:15 am
RE: Coming out as genderfluid on this forum - by Amarok - December 24, 2018 at 6:20 am

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