(December 31, 2018 at 7:47 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: - You don't need to shine your shoes. You just put some care in it, like you would with meeting a girl. The shining shoes bit was just some extra "fluff" if you will.And there's your problem. You are all fluff and no substance.
(December 31, 2018 at 7:47 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: - You could know she exists, but maybe you don't. If you're a single dude looking for a babe, you're probably not going to go to the party in a oil stained shirt and unbrushed teeth. I agree it's a little different, but if your approach is negative, then you'll probably get negativity back. I'm not suggesting that is proof, but it'she deep end how you get there.Irrelevant and kind of says more about you than anything else.
(December 31, 2018 at 7:47 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: - I don't know that the deity is a reflection. If I'm honest with myself, I don't often meet the standards I should, but it's me who is the problem.No it isn't. If you are imperfect it is because your god intentionally created you that way. What a dick.
(December 31, 2018 at 7:47 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: I can be hardheaded and lack empathy sometimes. But a lot of times I do get things right with my attitude and behavior. A lot of those "right" things are based on my belief in God.Started out kinda right, but then went off the deep end.
(December 31, 2018 at 7:47 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: - I don't know that scales are necessary to determine a relationship with someone or even knowing them just because. Back to the girl, does she have to be a "10" or do you even have to assume a value to her? Is she perfect to you even when she makes mistakes? If you're like me, that's part of what makes her perfect. She's not you, but you still have something in common. Sometimes it's the randomness of the experiences. I don't need to measure those things. What I do need to do is embrace them, but then again, that's me. As an individual, I don't put myself in a position to try to put God on a scale and rate. I also don't believe I have the authority to do such. Of course, we all see life differently. When we're old and grey, hopefully we can put all the pieces together and be happy with the result.How shallow.