(January 20, 2019 at 10:07 pm)Gae Bolga Wrote:(January 20, 2019 at 1:58 pm)T0 Th3 M4X Wrote: Of course he's going to assert something different than you because he believes differently than you.
Dumbest shit I've heard in awhile. My wife and I believe different things...but she doesn't tell me that 2 and 2 equals 5 on account of that.
Without our communal basis of fact..our beliefs, separate from facts..themselves..become mutually unintelligible. Try again.
If your marriage is dependent on what 2 and 2 equals, then you have issues well beyond what I'm saying.
If you disagree with her on anything, or she disagrees with you, would you accuse each other of being a "moron." Of course not, as I'm sure you love each other. It's simply a disagreement between two people because the other person sees things differently based on their life experience. I'm willing to bet it those things that you do agree on that make that relationship all the more special, and those things you don't see eye-to-eye on keep it all the more interesting because you can appreciate each other's unique differences. If you both had to conform to everything, then it would be dysfunctional.
