The harsh truth to personal conflict is this: You can't let your happiness depend on other people. If they want to screw things up, if they want to fight and scream and abuse and lie and manipulate, well, let them..... but you have to learn to take care of yourself despite it.
And as mean as it might sound, sometimes you have to distance yourself from someone you care about because they're hurting you and maybe even hurting themselves. If you let them pull you down, you won't be there to help pull them up, later, when they start to get their shit together.
Sometimes, it can hurt, but you just have to be able to move on.
And as mean as it might sound, sometimes you have to distance yourself from someone you care about because they're hurting you and maybe even hurting themselves. If you let them pull you down, you won't be there to help pull them up, later, when they start to get their shit together.
Sometimes, it can hurt, but you just have to be able to move on.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
