I'm sorry to hear of your issues. Is moving to a ranch home an option? What about just hiring a wall guy to install a dumbwaiter? They can be a few thousand to buy and have installed, but if your layout is right you can maybe hire a local handyman to a DIY version for a few hundred https://www.todayshomeowner.com/video/diy-dumbwaiter/
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