How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 11, 2019 at 3:59 pm
So, I had fun little experience this last weekend.
Back story: I was dating Lee since 2011 but we recently split up. He didn’t seem to have any kind of sex drive towards the end and I do. This left me VERY frustrated. Now that I’m single and I have my own apartment, I want to have a little fun.
I found a local club that hosts a sex party on Saturday nights. There were a few people in a secular group talking about it and since I would know a few people there, I figured I would give it a try.
It was a very fun, new experience for me. I had a few drinks, loosened up and started making out with some guy. We were all lips and tongue and strong manly arms holding onto me.
So, I mentioned transsexual, right? Yeah, I’m trans. I don’t like to make a big deal out of it, especially irl (makes life much easier when you live in super conservative Oklahoma). So I didn’t really come out at the club. I was making out with the guy, having fun, but I never told him I’m trans. If his hands started to go to a certain, unwanted part of my body, I started pulling away, so he just left himself going to other places. Then he whispered in my ear that he wanted to do something that I couldn’t really do yet; not until after I have surgery, anyway.
In my defense, I’m not used to having to come out to people and I’m really not used to coming out to someone who has their tongue shoved down my throat. Last time I was single, I looked like Eddie Izzard. Even now, I constantly see myself as some big, ugly m, hairy man-thing. The idea that someone couldn’t tell I’m trans just by looking at me still doesn’t register.
He wasn’t really into it, but he wasn’t hostile to me, either. I guess I was lucky, but I feel a bit safer in kink communities where sexual differences aren’t looked down on. I still get a bit nervous about what other guys would say or do upon finding out I’m trans; I mean guys who aren’t in sex clubs or stuff like that.
How do you think you’d react to finding out you had been making out with a transsexual?
Back story: I was dating Lee since 2011 but we recently split up. He didn’t seem to have any kind of sex drive towards the end and I do. This left me VERY frustrated. Now that I’m single and I have my own apartment, I want to have a little fun.
I found a local club that hosts a sex party on Saturday nights. There were a few people in a secular group talking about it and since I would know a few people there, I figured I would give it a try.
It was a very fun, new experience for me. I had a few drinks, loosened up and started making out with some guy. We were all lips and tongue and strong manly arms holding onto me.
So, I mentioned transsexual, right? Yeah, I’m trans. I don’t like to make a big deal out of it, especially irl (makes life much easier when you live in super conservative Oklahoma). So I didn’t really come out at the club. I was making out with the guy, having fun, but I never told him I’m trans. If his hands started to go to a certain, unwanted part of my body, I started pulling away, so he just left himself going to other places. Then he whispered in my ear that he wanted to do something that I couldn’t really do yet; not until after I have surgery, anyway.
In my defense, I’m not used to having to come out to people and I’m really not used to coming out to someone who has their tongue shoved down my throat. Last time I was single, I looked like Eddie Izzard. Even now, I constantly see myself as some big, ugly m, hairy man-thing. The idea that someone couldn’t tell I’m trans just by looking at me still doesn’t register.
He wasn’t really into it, but he wasn’t hostile to me, either. I guess I was lucky, but I feel a bit safer in kink communities where sexual differences aren’t looked down on. I still get a bit nervous about what other guys would say or do upon finding out I’m trans; I mean guys who aren’t in sex clubs or stuff like that.
How do you think you’d react to finding out you had been making out with a transsexual?
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
