RE: How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 15, 2019 at 9:42 pm
If she was hot, I wouldn't mind. Can't say I'd necessarily be interested in going further either, but I don't see myself making some huge deal out of it.
I think people get far too hung up on their sexuality than they should. We're all humans and we all like sex.
That being said, people also have a right to say no to anything they're not comfortable with. And when a, presumably, straight man is making out with someone he believes to be a cisgendered woman, I can see how someone could be disturbed by that.
Ideally, you should let people know you're trans early on in the relationship/interaction. It may be uncomfortable but it's honestly the right that to do and might save you from being physically harmed. Safety is clearly a huge issue with trans women and I get that, on an intellectual level at least (obviously I haven't lived it).
So yea, be honest and upfront with people and if you're having a lot of casual sex, please be safe.
I think people get far too hung up on their sexuality than they should. We're all humans and we all like sex.
That being said, people also have a right to say no to anything they're not comfortable with. And when a, presumably, straight man is making out with someone he believes to be a cisgendered woman, I can see how someone could be disturbed by that.
Ideally, you should let people know you're trans early on in the relationship/interaction. It may be uncomfortable but it's honestly the right that to do and might save you from being physically harmed. Safety is clearly a huge issue with trans women and I get that, on an intellectual level at least (obviously I haven't lived it).
So yea, be honest and upfront with people and if you're having a lot of casual sex, please be safe.
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