RE: How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 22, 2019 at 2:41 am
(This post was last modified: March 22, 2019 at 2:44 am by bennyboy.)
If trans relationships were very common, or generally acceptable, then it wouldn't really be necessary to let a new romantic partner know your background. In that case, it's buyer beware-- if you care, you'd better ask. However they are not very common, and not generally acceptable. Any reasonable person should be able to see that most men would want to know if a new sexual partner had ever had, or currently had, a penis, before engaging in any kind of intimate romantic contact.
I'd also want to know if a potential partner was hiding a 6th toe, or a 3rd nipple, or was bipolar or schizophrenic, had a serious problem with chronic and frequent stinky flatulence, or had extreme political positions that might reasonably be expected to cause intense aversion (like if they were a nazi). It doesn't mean that any of those makes a person less human or deserving of love and respect. But it does mean that withholding information amounts to a lie of omission.
There's a simple question someone can ask themselves: "Is there something about me that other people would probably be bothered by if they learned it?" If so, then you should tell them that information, or expect that when they discover it, they will be bothered.
A reasonable person can anticipate that a normal man will be upset if he discovers the "girl" he's been hot and heavy with either had or still has a penis. It's not really fair for that person to withhold that information, and then pretend to be surprised when things go really bad really fast upon discovery.
I'd also want to know if a potential partner was hiding a 6th toe, or a 3rd nipple, or was bipolar or schizophrenic, had a serious problem with chronic and frequent stinky flatulence, or had extreme political positions that might reasonably be expected to cause intense aversion (like if they were a nazi). It doesn't mean that any of those makes a person less human or deserving of love and respect. But it does mean that withholding information amounts to a lie of omission.
There's a simple question someone can ask themselves: "Is there something about me that other people would probably be bothered by if they learned it?" If so, then you should tell them that information, or expect that when they discover it, they will be bothered.
A reasonable person can anticipate that a normal man will be upset if he discovers the "girl" he's been hot and heavy with either had or still has a penis. It's not really fair for that person to withhold that information, and then pretend to be surprised when things go really bad really fast upon discovery.
