RE: How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 22, 2019 at 3:26 am
(This post was last modified: March 22, 2019 at 4:09 am by I_am_not_mafia.)
(March 22, 2019 at 2:41 am)bennyboy Wrote: A reasonable person can anticipate that a normal man will be upset if he discovers the "girl" he's been hot and heavy with either had or still has a penis. It's not really fair for that person to withhold that information, and then pretend to be surprised when things go really bad really fast upon discovery.
What about though if you know that the other person will never find out?
All you then is a sexual encounter that you both enjoy. Where's the harm in that?
(March 22, 2019 at 2:41 am)bennyboy Wrote: If trans relationships were very common, or generally acceptable, then it wouldn't really be necessary to let a new romantic partner know your background.
Transsexuals may not be very common, but neither are all the other characteristics I mentioned that may turn people off. But there are so many of them to list in advance. Why should transsexuality be the one being singled out as the only one needing to be revealed?
By the way, putting "girl" in quotation marks like that is deeply insulting and invalidates and negates many people's core existence through no fault of their own. People who are already some of the most marginalised and disenfranchised in the population. I thought you might need to know what you are actually achieving by doing that in case you didn't realise. If you did know what you were doing, then I would personally be ashamed to be you. Do you reveal your bigoted spiteful nature to potential sexual partners in case it puts them off you?
