How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Yonadav]

During my time with the Orthodox Jewish community, the community's understanding of trans rights and acceptance of trans people grew exponentially

If you can't see how it is harmful to claim that post-op trans-women who have had sex with men without revealing their past are date-rapists, then you shouldn't be 'educating' people about trans-rights or what it means to be trans.

If you can't understand how it negates a person core identity and erodes their belief that they have a right to exist like any other person or to do the most basic of things, then you're probably doing more harm than good by trying to be a representative of transsexuals.

And yes I do recognise that I am doing the same to you by denying that you are transsexual.

Sucks doesn't it.

I don't try to be representative of transsexuals. I simply am a transsexual with mountains of experience in trans issues. I was a major operative in persuading a city to add a gender identity clause to its EEOC enforcement, making trans people a protected class in that city. It was one of the earliest cities to do so. I've been a major operator in getting religious communities to be more accepting of trans people. I've spent decades on the front lines. 

And you're just a pot smoker with strong vapid opinions about things that you don't know anything about.

I've said everything that I have to say, and you're too entrenched in what you perceive to be the liberal side of a partisan issue where you think that trans people have rights and the people that they are intimate with don't. There's no talking to someone who thinks like that. So I'm done talking to you about it.