How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Yonadav]

And by the way, the surgically constructed vagina doesn't feel the same as natural vaginas. Men can feel the difference. Stories of men having sex with transsexuals and not being able to tell the difference are myth. You can feel the difference with your finger. A man can definitely feel the difference with his dick. And anyone who has had any experience at all with surgically constructed vaginas can spot one immediately.

It's not a myth. I am not talking about fingers but a penis. Even 20 years ago a neo-vagina could be constucted that was indistinguishable from a natural one visually expected from the outside by a cisgendered woman, or being penetrated by an experienced straight man.

But not all neo-vaginas are constructed using the same level of expertise.

A man can repeatedly have sex with a post-op trans woman and not know it.

OK, this is getting stupid. Surgeons have never been able to construct a vagina that has the infinite elasticity of a natural vag. The skin grafts are basically human leather. The colon graft adds depth to what is essentially a leather boot, and it also secretes a mucous that is sort of like that of a natural vagina. It's a leather boot. It doesn't even remotely have the elasticity of a natural vagina. There is a muscle down there in transwomen that doesn't like to be moved, and its presence is definitely felt. Visually, the most telling thing is the opening to the urethra. The 'pee hole' of transwomen looks very different than that of born women, and its placement is necessarily a bit off.