(April 25, 2019 at 5:00 pm)Yonadav Wrote:(April 25, 2019 at 4:47 pm)Shell B Wrote: Yon, I definitely didn't intentionally misrepresent your gender. I simply misunderstood. I won't call you dude anymore if that bothers you, though I do call women dude as well. Do you prefer to be referred to as him or her?
You can call me dude. I live as a man, so I obviously expect to be called things like 'dude'. But you said that I told you that I self identify as a man, and I have been very clear with you in the past about self identifying as a woman who lives as a man. If you can't discuss the facts about my personal history and get them right, then perhaps you shouldn't discuss my personal history, right?
You're just fishing to fight. You said I'd been corrected many times, which is bullshit. I only ever asked you about it one time, and I only ever spoke about it this one time. If you can find many instances of you correcting me, I'll admit I'm wrong.
When someone asks me why I'm referring to someone a certain way, and I answer based on what I understood from things that person said publicly in the past, I don't think it really matters if I'm discussing their personal history. If you want to be private, shut up.
