I Don't Care

[Amarok]

It's nobody else's business

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And there's a lot of personal truths there, right? Why should anyone respect your personal truth if you don't respect theirs? If there are a lot of people who would feel violated by unknowingly being intimate with a transsexual, who are we to deny the validity of their feelings of having been violated?

We have no right to demand that a person believe that a transwoman is a woman just like any other woman. We have a right to demand that they treat us with respect and dignity in our day to day lives, but we don't have a right to demand that they have sex with us just like any other woman. When we don't tell them and they don't know, then we are making that demand. We don't have a right to make it. And if they later find out, then they have every right to feel violated.

It's none of their business and their feels don't matter