(April 26, 2019 at 11:44 pm)Yonadav Wrote:(April 26, 2019 at 10:45 pm)Amarok Wrote: It's nobody else's business
It's none of their business and their feels don't matter
So why should anyone respect your feelings about anything? You don't respect those of others. I sure don't want someone feeling like I violated them.
(April 26, 2019 at 11:23 pm)Losty Wrote: Now that you’ve edited your message I think I’m getting a better idea. You wouldn’t expect a one night stand to give you any other personal information on themselves so why this?
So yea, it’s probably on the person who wants to know to ask.
It just being a one night stand doesn't get anyone off the hook. If the person later finds out and feels violated, then you can't just dismiss their feelings because it was just a one night stand. "It was just one time" isn't a defense.
It has nothing to do with it only being a one time as a defense. It’s that, in a one night stand the person you’re fucking owes you nothing. They don’t have to tell you if they support trump or I’ve theyve ever slept with someone of the same gender as them, or if their mother is Salvadoran. There’s no reason for them to assume you’re going to feel violated. So it makes sense that if that’s something that really bothers you, then it’s up to you to ask.