RE: I Don't Care
April 28, 2019 at 5:09 am
(This post was last modified: April 28, 2019 at 5:20 am by Losty.)
I don’t think the original post had anything to do with this discussion. I have no idea if Yon is post op or not.
There’s a lot of different discussions going on within a discussion I think.
There’s been discussion of post op and discussion of pre op. But I don’t think anyone is struggling to tell the difference. People are discussing both circumstances and some people have different views depending on the circumstances and some people see it the same either way.
Personally, I can see both sides. I can totally understand why someone might be upset about not having been told before hand (regardless of pre-op or post-op). I can also agree that (in the case of a one night stand or random stranger sex) a person is not morally obligated to divulge this information unprompted.
I don’t think I can be fully swayed to one side or the other. The only thing I can say with certainty is that if someone outright asks a person if they’re trans before having sex and they lie, I think that’s definitely wrong. Otherwise it seems rather grey to me.
There’s a lot of different discussions going on within a discussion I think.
There’s been discussion of post op and discussion of pre op. But I don’t think anyone is struggling to tell the difference. People are discussing both circumstances and some people have different views depending on the circumstances and some people see it the same either way.
Personally, I can see both sides. I can totally understand why someone might be upset about not having been told before hand (regardless of pre-op or post-op). I can also agree that (in the case of a one night stand or random stranger sex) a person is not morally obligated to divulge this information unprompted.
I don’t think I can be fully swayed to one side or the other. The only thing I can say with certainty is that if someone outright asks a person if they’re trans before having sex and they lie, I think that’s definitely wrong. Otherwise it seems rather grey to me.
