RE: Here’s my question.
July 15, 2019 at 1:08 pm
(This post was last modified: July 15, 2019 at 1:58 pm by Athene.)
(July 15, 2019 at 9:31 am)Drich Wrote:(July 10, 2019 at 6:12 pm)Athene Wrote:not gay sex or black people in general. I made it clear, but you are too busy trying to put what I said, and make it fit in your own biased and ignorant manifesto/world view.
I said free sex is the scourge of society. it is the idea that a father does not have to raise his children. it is the idea that a man can move from partner to partner and it not effect the family. it is the idea that the family is not needed that men play no roles in how a child develops. it is the idea that women can provide a child with everything on their own. I'm sorry women can't. look at how single mother have failed from the 70' 80's and 90s. and now 2000's. look at out prisons. who fills them out? men who had both mother and a father or is it men who only had a mom? look at how same men treat women...
That sweet heart is the problem I pointed out.
You can't tell me that any one raising a child on her own would not take an offer of all of a hard working man's pay check every week and 50% of the work load being shared with a loving attentive father.
Free sex (any sex outside the confines of a sanctified marriage) removes this option from a family, and on a large national scale it removes the core elements on needs to be a successful and productive member of society. Not that you can not obtain these skills any other way.. It is just way easier to have these things programmed in from a very young age. Most people if not taught from childhood how to be a man and raise a family, do not know to seek this out. rather then like minded 'brothers.' who often are the antissis of structured social community, who often times are at odds because they begin to develop their own social norms which disconnects them from the main stream. they want to build a subculture based on free sex and personal want and will rather than self sacrifice for God country and family.
Again not that a single mom can't do this or a man can't figure this out on their own, it's just history and our prisons tell a completely different story.
Above all things, I encourage women to become wholly self-sufficient before having children, and that stance has nothing to do with sex. I honestly believe it goes much further in protecting them and their children from poverty then any simple "marriage solution". I would like to see more women in the position of being able to well-provide for their families whether they choose to be unmarried, marry, or marry and become widowed or divorced.
I'm not opposed to marriage per se, but I do believe that the "traditional" marriage set-up that so many Christians love to champion of a stay-at-home mother popping out kid after kid and being overly or totally dependent on her spouse stands to be a dangerous set-up for women. It works out fine for some of course, but it blows up enough in women's faces that there's no way I could go out of my way to advocate for it in good conscience. I won't co-sign on that.
Despite MY lack of enthusiasm for the "traditional" marriage, 75% of Black women are married by the before the age of 35; presumably to Black males for the most part. So clearly this special knack you have for knowing precisely what all Black people want and think and where that takes them at any given moment is somewhat askew.
Hell, I argue with Black "respectability" twats about this sort shit all the time who claim that I'm somehow the cause of racism and dysfunction because I personally have no interest in being married and don't buy that it's the end all solution to discrimination, racism, poverty, and every fucking thing else world.
They're lunatics, just like you.
