Here’s my question.

[Drich]

not gay sex or black people in general. I made it clear, but you are too busy trying to put what I said, and make it fit in your own biased and ignorant manifesto/world view.

I said free sex is the scourge of society. it is the idea that a father does not have to raise his children. it is the idea that a man can move from partner to partner and it not effect the family. it is the idea that the family is not needed that men play no roles in how a child develops. it is the idea that women can provide a child with everything on their own. I'm sorry women can't. look at how single mother have failed from the 70' 80's and 90s. and now 2000's. look at out prisons. who fills them out? men who had both mother and a father or is it men who only had a mom? look at how same men treat women...

That sweet heart is the problem I pointed out.

You can't tell me that any one raising a child on her own would not take an offer of all of a hard working man's pay check every week and 50% of the work load being shared with a loving attentive father.

Free sex (any sex outside the confines of a sanctified marriage) removes this option from a family, and on a large national scale it removes the core elements on needs to be a successful and productive member of society. Not that you can not obtain these skills any other way.. It is just way easier to have these things programmed in from a very young age. Most people if not taught from childhood how to be a man and raise a family, do not know to seek this out. rather then like minded 'brothers.' who often are the antissis of structured social community, who often times are at odds because they begin to develop their own social norms which disconnects them from the main stream. they want to build a subculture based on free sex and personal want and will rather than self sacrifice for God country and family.

Again not that a single mom can't do this or a man can't figure this out on their own, it's just history and our prisons tell a completely different story.

Above all things, I encourage women to become wholly self-sufficient before having children, and that stance has nothing to do with sex. I honestly believe it goes much further in protecting them and their children from poverty then any simple "marriage solution". I would like to see more women in the position of being able to well-provide for their families whether they choose to be unmarried, marry, or marry and become widowed or divorced.

I'm not opposed to marriage per se, but I do believe that the "traditional" marriage set-up that so many Christians love to champion of a stay-at-home mother popping out kid after kid and being overly or totally dependent on her spouse stands to be a dangerous set-up for women. It works out fine for some of course, but it blows up enough in women's faces that there's no way I could go out of my way to advocate for it in good conscience. I won't co-sign on that.

Despite MY lack of enthusiasm for the "traditional" marriage, 75% of Black women are married by the before the age of 35; presumably to Black males for the most part. So clearly this special knack you have for knowing precisely what all Black people want and think and where that takes them at any given moment is somewhat askew. 
Hell, I argue with Black "respectability" twats about this sort shit all the time who claim that I'm somehow the cause of racism and dysfunction because I personally have no interest in being married and don't buy that it's the end all solution to discrimination, racism, poverty, and every fucking thing else world. 

They're lunatics, just like you.

I'm not trying to poop on black people here but the numbers are the numbers and the truth is the truth..

Let's start with just how I collect and present data. I give you a fact then a source.

Now look at the above mess you made. you gave your feeling and what you think should be true. I say that because you start with your own personal opinion. then make up some unreferenced bull shit about what black people do/what you think black people do.

So let's look at the numbers/truth A-Gain.

Marriage has been a declining institution among all Americans and this decline is even more evident in the Black community. In 2016 only 29% of African Americans were married compared to 48% of all Americans. Half or 50% of African Americans have never been married compared to 33% of all Americans.

After viewing the available data, we can see that although fewer black women are “now married”, more black women than Black men have been married at least once. This is because a higher percentage of Black women are divorced and widowed than men. Also in 2016 just under half or 48% of black women had never been married which is up from 44% in 2008 and 42.7% in 2005. 

Then we have a legit source:
https://blackdemographics.com/households...k-america/

These numbers are the exact opposite of what you 'think' black people want or are in fact doing according to the US census bureau ACS.

verse what... you're black, which makes you an expert on all black people in the US???

That's not how the truth works, but i guess truth does not matter any more to people, just the political narrative that allows you to call anyone you do not like or disagrees with you a racist... which should be in 3... 2... 1...

Another truth black in not the issue the destruction of the family via free sex is the issue. the same things happen to the sub culture of poor whites who have also adopted a culture of free sex. but poor white people via white privilege do not exist, so the next best example where free sex has destroyed a culture is with black americans. The next best example meaning alot of work and verified research has been done here, which is all but impossible for a truth seeker to deny.

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Before pre marital sex, divorce, and single parenting we’re normalized.,. people fucked in private, cheated on and cucked their spouses at an alarming rate,  and remained stuck in loveless and/or abusive marriages.

Ah, the good old days!

The reason that Christians are obsessed with other people’s dicks is simple.  Taboo breeds perversion.

I'm not saying people did not cheat on their spouses in the past. I am saying society did not allow tools that made cheating so easy before the culture of free sex.

Or are you saying there was a 1950's version of tinder, ginder and 100's of other hook up apps and websites who only purpose was to put strangers in bed with one another. Where as before you had to actively seek out people who wanted what you did. Today it seems like the culture has become anti family in that the protections of just general shame for not being monogamous has in of it'self become 'immoral' to the culture at large.