Jews don't get a pass from me either.

[Belacqua]

she went to a Synagogue and her words "was blown away", by the "wisdom" of old traditions and "how to live a good life and be a better person."

At any point did this woman argue that Judaism is the only framework within which one can be a good person? That's what you seem to be arguing against. 

Many people find that their own wisdom is insufficient, and it helps to join in a more substantial tradition. That doesn't mean they begin to hate others.