(April 1, 2020 at 5:29 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Seems like a lot of work. Acceptable results can be achieved by learning six chords in two keys on the guitar.
Boru
LOL! But hey that's not a bad idea actually boru.
Girls seem to think I'm handsome. I'm lucky in that regard. But doesn't mean women just throw themselves at me. You know many handsome guys there are out there? Tons. And tons way better looking than me. lol.
The thing that the resentful types don't seem to get, is even if you're not the classically attractive type of man, there's gotta' be something about you that women are attracted to. I mean, you gotta' ask, what is it you bring to the table? Cliche, sure, but you should have 'a thing.' And hopefully, your thing isn't completely contrived, so you're not the type of creep who is doing or having 'a thing' just to get laid...
Hopefully, whatever your thing is, it's a natural part of you that happens to help you attract women. Maybe it's a good sense of humor, maybe it's an ambience of mystery or something that you have about you... maybe you just have a way with words or maybe, hey, you play guitar. But whatever it is, you gotta' be an interesting guy in some degree. My thing is I love to write. But I actually love to write. Always have.
I'm not a writer because I want to get laid, though I'd be lying if I says it doesn't help LOL
I've been lucky. Have dated more than one girl who is way outta' my league... they see this tall (6'3" or 1.91 m) masculine looking burly guy with sort of dark blonde/light brown hair, blue eyes, very long, sort of feminine actually, eyelashes... But I have a good, masculine beard and I look like I probably work on my car and life stuff ( I don't LOL), but then girls find out I write, and that I write poetry from time to time... and I'm not gonna' lie boru a lot of em just melt in their seat right there.... well.. sometimes
But, I've also been rejected a ton of fucking times, and it hurts LOL
And any guy who says he hasn't been rejected a ton of times is probably full of it.
But you don't get resentful. Whats it accomplish? It also makes you come off like a total fucking creep
Here's a newsflash to the resentful fella' who ain't getting laid...
IS THERE ANYTHING AT ALL INTERESTING ABOUT YOU?
Or do you just believe that being nice to an attractive woman means they owe you sex?
Cuz they don't.
Not to be some pity party type of asshole but I honestly feel bad for attractive women in some ways... I mean maybe it sounds ridiculous and tons of women would probably say fuck you and your pity... but think about it man... For a good looking woman, every guy, hopefully in their age group, theyve EVER fucking come across since they were like 14 years old has been trying to fuck them. every. Single. One.
How insanely exhausting that must be.
And guys...? We're gross. You're lucky a pretty girl even looks your way let alone lets you kiss her, and gives you access to her most intimate of areas.
So to the bitter incels... who the fuck do you think you are? You think just being nice means you get laid? Like hey, I was nice and listened to you talk for an hour, please give me some pussy....? How ridiculous.
Boru you're a wise person. Wiser than I.
You bring up an awesome point. And you do it without rambling like I do. Bravo.
LOL /rant
If you're frightened of dying, and you're holding on, you'll see devils tearing your life away. But if you've made your peace, then the devils are really angels, freeing you from the Earth.