(April 5, 2020 at 8:47 am)The Grand Nudger Wrote: Funny thing about that sort of shit, incels aren't in any way unfuckable aside from their being incels.
I wouldn't lead with it on a date.
Some might currently look physically unattractive, I'll give them that, but I've learned a thing or two about physical beauty: it's more about knowing how to look good than just naturally looking good. Hell, even people who have "natural good looks" put a lot of effort into looking good. Skin care, hair care, eating healthy, taking care of your teeth, your smile, posture, fitness...... those are all things people put effort into. Knowing what hair styles look good, knowing what clothes look good, reading people and knowing how to communicate effectively, those are all a part of being attractive. I think, a lot of those incels, if they stopped with the self loathing and started thinking about what they can do to fix their problems, they would make a lot more progress. But they don't. It's a toxic community that just feeds on its own toxicity.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama