(August 21, 2020 at 9:05 pm)Eleven Wrote: The boyfriend handles the bills. *shrugs*
My gay neighbor let his boyfriend take care of all the bills, too. He got a rude awakening when the guy died. I recommend paying more attention to your monetary situation. Seriously. Not saying anyone, that boyfriend or yours, were ripping anyone off, but when people die, vultures circle in on the survivors. When my FiL died, people were calling my MiL with pleas for money from "charities" that my FiL supposedly paid into. She was starting the slide into Alzheimer's and dementia by then, and fortunately my wife caught it in time. Crooks are everywhere. Share your financial health with your boyfriend, both ways. Boyfriend gets killed in a wreck, and there you are destitute. Pay attention, young man!
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