So it's all been a massive secret you think? Lol that's funny (sorry for the lack of a point there)
For the point, in response the Luke's 'fluff' response to him quoting my 'fluffs': I ask the same quesiton....when I am yet to get an answer!
Now I finally have, but if it's true - if it's an issue that no one has actually mentioned to me. I find that funny because even if it was about me leaving the forums or simply stepping down for mod it would only take Adrian to ask and I'd obey. All I'd probably want myself is to know "Why?" - but I'd still oblige either way - I'm not in charge here.
I'd rather be told things, earlier, that is all. I'd much rather even be told to "fuck off" for instance (actually that wouldn't bother me at all) than people to pretend that they like me only later to tell me after wasting my time and effort on them (and others who share their opinion) for so long.
It's what I think of as the 'grumbling under your breath attitude' - if anyone has a problem, I say - speak out! It would be much appreciated by me!
If indeed it has been an issue for ages but no one's mentioned it, then to be honest I'm quite glad Bef has pointed it out because it's exposed some honesty ( as I said specifically if it's indeed true that this has been an unmentioned issue for ages).
Honesty is what I admire the most - I don't give a crap if it's negative or not ( at least if it's towards/against me I mean). It's more constructive and resourceful and less of a waste of my time and others, to tell me sooner rather than earlier. If you can. If you can't....I still find it bizarre it has taken 9 months to be honest if this really wasn't hibernating at all.
EvF
For the point, in response the Luke's 'fluff' response to him quoting my 'fluffs': I ask the same quesiton....when I am yet to get an answer!
Now I finally have, but if it's true - if it's an issue that no one has actually mentioned to me. I find that funny because even if it was about me leaving the forums or simply stepping down for mod it would only take Adrian to ask and I'd obey. All I'd probably want myself is to know "Why?" - but I'd still oblige either way - I'm not in charge here.
I'd rather be told things, earlier, that is all. I'd much rather even be told to "fuck off" for instance (actually that wouldn't bother me at all) than people to pretend that they like me only later to tell me after wasting my time and effort on them (and others who share their opinion) for so long.
It's what I think of as the 'grumbling under your breath attitude' - if anyone has a problem, I say - speak out! It would be much appreciated by me!
If indeed it has been an issue for ages but no one's mentioned it, then to be honest I'm quite glad Bef has pointed it out because it's exposed some honesty ( as I said specifically if it's indeed true that this has been an unmentioned issue for ages).
Honesty is what I admire the most - I don't give a crap if it's negative or not ( at least if it's towards/against me I mean). It's more constructive and resourceful and less of a waste of my time and others, to tell me sooner rather than earlier. If you can. If you can't....I still find it bizarre it has taken 9 months to be honest if this really wasn't hibernating at all.
EvF
