Alei, if I were you, I'd concentrate more on breaking religious guilt he might hold in his head rather than worrying about making him "accept" himself - whatever it is. Slowly leading him to realizing that he won't be eternally judged for being himself will do a lot more for relaxing him - although I can't give a tit's worth of advice on how he'll get around the fundy family. Mine just give me the silent treatment when I'm a bad girl. Somehow I doubt Christians are willing to be so hands-off.
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