Life is never going to fair. There are plenty of unmitigated bastards out there, but they all look the feeble same sitting naked on a toilet trying to get rid of four pounds of crap.
As you experience the vicissitudes of life, you'll grow stronger. But always have self-respect, and don't allow yourself to be pulled down by the little-dick people. Keep your distance.
A long time ago in school assemblies, a certain piece of music by Val Doonican was frequently played: Walk tall (walk straight, and look the world right in the eye.) Never forgotten it.
Listen to that, then read Rudyard Kipling's poem IF. Then read it again, slowly. Then again, even more slowly.
Keep asking how you would judge your current self. You'll get there.
As you experience the vicissitudes of life, you'll grow stronger. But always have self-respect, and don't allow yourself to be pulled down by the little-dick people. Keep your distance.
A long time ago in school assemblies, a certain piece of music by Val Doonican was frequently played: Walk tall (walk straight, and look the world right in the eye.) Never forgotten it.
Listen to that, then read Rudyard Kipling's poem IF. Then read it again, slowly. Then again, even more slowly.
Keep asking how you would judge your current self. You'll get there.