RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview
January 26, 2021 at 12:23 am
(This post was last modified: January 26, 2021 at 2:21 am by John 6IX Breezy.)
Certainly, but I think that when you look at confidence under a microscope, what is actually attracting a girl is competence in various facets. Competence in communication (not overtexting). Competence in self-management (dressing well, hygiene, health). Competence in action (decision-making, personal responsibility, goal-oriented).
I think the issue with confidence is that it leans too heavily on demonstration. It's not enough to be internally confident; you have to perform it for others to see. And so men often seek to imitate the stereotypes of what they think confidence looks like, rather than putting in the work that leads to genuine results.
I think the issue with confidence is that it leans too heavily on demonstration. It's not enough to be internally confident; you have to perform it for others to see. And so men often seek to imitate the stereotypes of what they think confidence looks like, rather than putting in the work that leads to genuine results.
