(March 6, 2021 at 12:45 am)Ryantology Wrote:Truth is - I used that for illustrative purposes and observing guys who do that.....(March 4, 2021 at 7:31 pm)onlinebiker Wrote: If I show up with flowers and candy outta the blue the first thing out of the SO's mouth is "What the fuck did you do now?".
If you don' t see the parrallel you are beyond help...
It would imply that you only give gifts to your significant other to save face when you fuck up, so my suggestion as a highly successful married man is to give gifts because it's a nice thing to do, and never do it as an apology.
I do enough for my SO that she is quite appreciative.
If I did fuck up - and rarely do - she' d forgive me....
No bribes needed.