The existence of God

[Angrboda]

This is a community, kind of like a retirement home.  We're supposed to get along here; that's more important than "winning" arguments.

And yet no one gets along here. And plus, it's a discussion forum, everything on here should be about winning/losing arguments.

You're reading to much into people's disagreement. Monkeys pick lice off each other as a form of social bonding. Humans have arguments.

There's an old Irish proverb that expresses it well: Better married and fighting than single and lonely.

And people do things besides argue on forums, so it isn't all spittle and bile.