Sexual Fluidity

[FrustratedFool]

I'm sorry you currently hate people.  

Would you agree that's a somewhat irrational response to not having much dating success with girls, though?

Also, what was it that hindered your dating?

My entire sense of self was predicated on being successful with females, and when that didn't work out, I pretty much became a different person, and not for the better. It can't be helped.

I can understand the effect of the loss of a sense of self, but I think it possible (if you want) to re-construct a new alternative self identity which doesn't hate and use people. I think k that would likely be in your best interests as being someone who hates and uses others is likely to make your life worse than it otherwise could have been.

What caused your failure with girls, and is that still an issue now?