(January 7, 2024 at 1:07 pm)Nay_Sayer Wrote:(January 6, 2024 at 3:55 pm)neil Wrote: The couples themselves who willingly, voluntarily, get married - it's literally what they say in their own vows.
Not if they don't have that in the vows. You know you can write your own.
Not to mention - if you treat it as a verbal contract, if one party breaks the vows, why would the other party still be bound? My first spouse was abusive and controlling and uninterested in doing otherwise. I didn't sign up for that shit.