The Historical Jesus

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Can't say as I do.   Feel free to explain.

Okay so this is a fascinating (and extremely important to understand) concept in human Psychology.

Basically an avoidant attachment style means that you avoid feelings of warmth and closeness with people.

One way to describe it is as the Fear of Falling in Love. 
In order to Love someone you have to make yourself vulnerable.

Once you see it in yourself, you'll be able to see it in most people. The reason why a girl may simply excuse herself from a good conversation and walk away from a handsome man is because she is unfamiliar with the experience of healthy Love.

Same goes for people who always find themselves in abusive or toxic relationships, this is what they are familiar with. The idea of fighting for someone to act like they Love you. You would be surprised by how many people will avoid a healthy connection in favor of a connection of a more Lascivious nature.