RE: How to avoid shaking hands
March 22, 2012 at 9:34 am
(This post was last modified: March 22, 2012 at 9:40 am by Scarlet Pimpernel.)
(March 22, 2012 at 9:11 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote:Quote:The problem is discrimination: you treat girls differently than you do men.Friend, you have to.
Else, you should be able to hit a woman as you would a man, if they would insult you in public, or attack you.
You get violent when you feel insulted? And you consider that normal?
Quote:And the most tragic aspect of this no-handshake business, the wearing of niqaabs, burkas, the walking 3 paces behind your man, etc. etc. is that IT HAS NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH ISLAM! NOTHING ! The Qur'An does NOT require it. They aren't even mentioned in the Qur'An!
All this discrimination of women is purely a CULTURAL thing. Not religious!
Quote:It does not matter if the Qur'an requires it or not, friend.
There is the sunnah, there is the hadith. Are you above these, or are you such a learned man of faith to state that these are not there?
The sunnah and the hadith are NOT the words of the prophet!
Quote:Discrimination, well, both men and women discriminate eachother on certain things.
Of course they do. That's reality. That doesn't mean that it is 'normal'. To the contrary: discrimination is discrimination, whichever way you look at it.
Quote:Would you be able to have the same type of conversation you have with your fellow male, with another female?
I certainly would not.
Irrelevant. Don't confuse the issue: this is not about a conversation of an hour, this is about a greeting of 2 seconds.
Quote:And I also would not like it if a female came to me with a conversation topic that is usually discussed amongst girls. I see this as very rude, and a sign that she does not accept me as a man, but as a woman, that she comes up to me discussing female topics.
So before considering anything else (e.g. the actual content of the conversation) you are already offended by a woman approaching you with a conversation topic that you assume is usually discussed amongst girls? That's a sign of weakness. You must be very insecure about your manhood. :-P