How to avoid shaking hands

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You get violent when you feel insulted? And you consider that normal?

If you have a shred of pride, and a name for yourself, you cannot simply ignore words that are directed towards any of these.
I will first warn the person as politely as I can, but if he continues, I will have to teach him some respect. Because someone eventually will.

The sunnah and the hadith are NOT the words of the prophet!

Which denomination are you, friend? How do you perform your prayers without consulting the sunnah?

Of course they do. That's reality. That doesn't mean that it is 'normal'. To the contrary: discrimination is discrimination, whichever way you look at it.

It's normal as it is.
Men and women cannot be equal in every aspect. Neither can all men, nor all women be equal on every aspect amongst eachother.
If you expect me to act towards a woman the same way I act against a man...
I am more polite and more held back towards females. This is what my creed requires of me.

Irrelevant. Don't confuse the issue: this is not about a conversation of an hour, this is about a greeting of 2 seconds.

And on that accord, I do not greet females I do not know the same way as I greet males.
What kind of a violent discrimination towards women am I performing here?

I once gave my seat in a bus to a woman who came in, there were no seats to be found, and she yelled at me. She professed that she did not know me, and that I hinted on something by offering my seat.
I was simply being polite. Some people are like that. I rather not take the risk of public humiliation.

So before considering anything else (e.g. the actual content of the conversation) you are already offended by a woman approaching you with a conversation topic that you assume is usually discussed amongst girls? That's a sign of weakness. You must be very insecure about your manhood. :-P

I'm very secure about my manhood. But I will not have it to be treated like a girl by another girl. I usually break up the conversation, should it come to that. But people know me, and most try to have a rather tasteful conversation.
Not *before anything else*, I usually consider hand-jokes, or swearwords used in a friendly way to be very unfriendly, and rude.
I rather keep my distance to people in a tasteful way, friend.
Even at my drinking table.