RE: Why does everyone hate me?
April 1, 2012 at 11:25 pm
(This post was last modified: April 1, 2012 at 11:30 pm by KichigaiNeko.)
"Being a joiner" has never worked for me, nor has being "nice and polite". Being the opposite is of little value as most people can spot BS and when you are being fake.
Finding something that interests you, like gardening and learning how to garden will bring you into contact with like minded people but the best I could say is... just be yourself, no airs or graces, no phoney attitude.
I think I can count on one hand the number of friends I have had in 5 decades. I have been acquainted with so many more. Guess I'm just a bit of a loner and am happy with that. Sometimes I find it is good to be on the outside looking in.
my2c
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Finding something that interests you, like gardening and learning how to garden will bring you into contact with like minded people but the best I could say is... just be yourself, no airs or graces, no phoney attitude.
I think I can count on one hand the number of friends I have had in 5 decades. I have been acquainted with so many more. Guess I'm just a bit of a loner and am happy with that. Sometimes I find it is good to be on the outside looking in.
my2c
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