I agree with the others that caring so much is not a good thing. I am one of those people who has a bad habit of trying to control my circumstances a bit too much at times. You need to learn to let go and live and just see what happens. One other thing that helps me out is I go out of my way to entertain people. I usually don't have problem getting friends although I am far from popular.
Finding an interest is a good thing too. There is some phrase I think that is good wisdom too, "Before you date you need to first be able to be happy while alone". With other people you could try finding out what interests them and then invite them to come do what interests them with you.
This is important to: DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT try and control the socials situations you are in. If you do it will come off as awkward etc. I mean this with just general friends and women. Just go out, have a good time, get to know people, and let things develop.
Also if you want people to get interested in you try just asking them about themselves. Just let them talk/spout off and do that for awhile and they will feel like they had the best conversation with you ever even though you said nothing. My dad told me this "People's favorite topic is themselves". Might be worth a shot and if nothing else its a wonderful social experiment
Finding an interest is a good thing too. There is some phrase I think that is good wisdom too, "Before you date you need to first be able to be happy while alone". With other people you could try finding out what interests them and then invite them to come do what interests them with you.
This is important to: DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT try and control the socials situations you are in. If you do it will come off as awkward etc. I mean this with just general friends and women. Just go out, have a good time, get to know people, and let things develop.
Also if you want people to get interested in you try just asking them about themselves. Just let them talk/spout off and do that for awhile and they will feel like they had the best conversation with you ever even though you said nothing. My dad told me this "People's favorite topic is themselves". Might be worth a shot and if nothing else its a wonderful social experiment
