@ teaearlgreyhot,Surely you do not see me as Calvinistic, there is no way I believe in predestination or double predestination or most any other Calvinistic view. As a matter of fact, it's your view that is Calvinistic, this is the reason you believe that witnessing does not matter and this can be the only reason, predestination. I'm Southern Baptist and believe all will be given a chance at salvation. Let me clarify this, God will and can use those He desires because of His foreknowledge, Judas and Pharaoh are two examples. God is love, and there is no way I can believe that God would predestine anyone to eternal punishment.
God loves those who believe and those who do not and the same goes for me, you have no choice in this matter. That puts the matter of total free will to rest.