(May 14, 2012 at 12:29 pm)NoMoreFaith Wrote:(May 14, 2012 at 12:04 pm)michrelvoik Wrote: Firstly, would you care to explain how I was disrespectful to you. Secondly, as I said, it's very insensitive to suggest that someone has a brain tumour.
*le sigh*
We're not getting off on a very good foot are we.
By referring to the concept that I was offended by your irrationality, I am pointing out that people are offended over many things, but quite frankly, the right to offend, is far stronger than your right not to be offended.
It was also in humour.. but I guess that fell flat
You didn't say it was insensitive, you said it was disrespectful. I asked you to explain why someone with a brain tumor deserves respect rather than sympathy.
Minimalist was just being flippant (even if he means it), but quite frankly, its OTT to jump up and down demanding it was disrespectful.
I'm sure you didn't mean to be insensitive or disrespectful, at least I hope you weren't, although yes of course I was hinting that you were being both, the reason being that sometimes words can be hurtful, and there's really no need for it. I agree that we all have the right to speak our minds even if it offends but comparing what the other person said to having a brain tumour is a bit strong, don't you think. All I'm suggesting, for what it's worth, is that when you have a choice of how far to take it, it's best to not go too far. I don't have a brain tumour, and I never have had one, nor do I know anyone who has, but I'm aware that words should be used with care. The reason why I kind of picked on you for what you said is that in the past I've seen otherwise constructive conversations get ruined in this way.
