(June 7, 2012 at 6:34 pm)Aiza Wrote: Really? I think its very fair to say that on the first page at least (I could not bear to read further) there was only a single mention of getting "help", and even that was after a long post telling him to "GET A GRIP" among other things.
You need to wake the fuck up to reality. Telling someone who clearly needs to get a grip, to get a grip, is in my opinion very helpful. Sometimes people need to be told the cold truth. If I was in his situation I'd rather people were honest. Why the fuck come on an internet forum telling everyone how suicidal you are if you don't want them to be at the very least honest?
What should we do instead? Pat this guy on the back and tell him to pray to a god that doesn't answer? Indeed. What a constructive idea.
On top of that in my original response (on the first page you refer to) I did in fact tell this person to seek professional help on multiple occasions.
So no. It's not 'fair to say' what you say. Stop being a disingenuous pompous prick.