(June 10, 2012 at 11:11 pm)Rhythm Wrote: Its interesting to wonder whether or not the grief we assign a positive and altruistic value judgement towards is actually a front for self interest, isn't it?
I don't understand. If I were only worried about myself, I would never have shed a tear once she was gone. I'd have been "off the hook," so to speak. No one to answer to. No consequences.
Maybe you could clarify?