Quote:All that i remember of all the "lessons" ever taught to me by spankings is the fear and hatred of my father.
I was seldom hit at home and bear no resentment over the few times this occurred.
However, I had the living crap beaten out of me from age 11 to 17 at the Catholic school I attended.(as had my father at his) I hated those cunts then and still do today,46 years later. .
@DLF
I hope you can see this a rather touchy subject to me.
I remain adamant that it is NOT OK to hit a child,EVER.
No child "deserves" to be hit. I understand why parents hit their children,but think that makes it about them and their frustrations,not the welfare of the child. It's too easy and it's incompetent parenting. I only formed this opinion as an adult,after discovering none of the friends I made as an adult,of either sex, had been hit as an adult.