Right to die

[Reforged]

This past February, my grandmother (whom I was the closest to in the family) was diagnosed with cancer. We looked into options to fight it. Within two weeks of diagnosis she was bedridden in the hospital. She suffered there for a little over three weeks. It was apparent within the first days of her illness she wasn't going to get any better. She continued to suffer for those three weeks in total agony (she was a trooper and rarely complained, even though she had a tube literally running from her nose to her intestine draining the fluid that was blocking her up, she lived on no food for almost two weeks. Still, I knew that she was miserable.) She was ready to go, she wanted the pain to stop, but it just dragged on and on. I wanted so desperately for her suffering to end, as did she, but it took a month before the suffering stopped.

So tell me, why is it that she shouldn't have been given the option to have ended it?

I truly feel for you, I know it's painful for all. My aunt several years ago had cancer and died a miserable death and her suffering was extended because my uncle could not let her go, that was a terribly selfish thing for him to do, she wanted to go she was tired of the pain. So it could get worse if people who are involved become selfish. My father told us that when there was no hope to let him go, we loved him enough to do that, we kept him on morphine until he died so the pain of his body shutting down would not be so bad. I even prayed that if he was not to recover that God would go ahead and take him so he would not have to suffer. My church has prayed that God would take people who were not going to get well so they would not suffer and in most cases He called them home within a couple of days. We have prayed that prayer for those who earlier in their lives joined in those prayers of mercy, knowing they would be happy we loved them enough to ask God to end their suffering.
My uncle is proof we do not always have control over our own lives, if we do not want someone extending our lives we need to have a living will made out for our doctors, stating only to have pain killers and water, when one is not feed there is no pain suffered, so we do have some control over our death, but no one should have there lives shortened by what people call mercy killing. I know that doesn't make much sense to you especially after what I said about prayer, but I believe that our lives belong to God and His will should be allowed to the end of our lives. One never knows how God may be working with others.

"My uncle is proof we do not always have control over our own lives, if we do not want someone extending our lives we need to have a living will made out for our doctors, stating only to have pain killers and water, when one is not feed there is no pain suffered, so we do have some control over our death, but no one should have there lives shortened by what people call mercy killing."

Sorry, no. I'm not letting this one slide. How is purposefully starving yourself anything other than suicide? What, thats ok but any other form of suicide or mercykilling is just a step too far?
Do you have any idea how much of a hypocrite you actually are? According to you self-imposed death is immoral, wrong and people who do it will be punished by God or whatever but the particular brand you guys carried out?
Nah, that was ok because it was natural. Newsflash; poking a bear with a stick or lying on the edge of a cliff that is likely to break off would both be "natural" ways to die. There are many and you could say "Oh look God did it" but you'd be talking bullshit wouldn't you? If you deny someone sustenance for an overly extend period of time then they will die. Thats what happens, God or no God. You all knew this and you went through with it fully expecting it to happen as a result, not through the power of "prayers" but because thats what happens. You starve someone, they die.
Don't try to give yourself a free pass you don't extend to others.