Wow, you said you hope this doesn't offend someone and then spew complete crap like that. Let me elucidate. I am a gay man, most people who I speak with in regular society, even jobs, are quite shocked to learn I am gay. I just act like me, not like a stereotype.
When it comes to forcing views on people the only views I have are that we should all be free to live our lives the way we see fit. As to any moronic gay pride bullshit I have never and will never participate in any of that foolish nonsense that simply does more to set us back than it does to help us in any way. Not to mention I don't find being gay something to be proud of, I was born this way, it's not a fucking achievement. I don't even wear rainbow jewelry, though I have no problem with other people doing so. After all it doesn't hurt anyone and again, we should all be free to live our lives as we see fit.
I have a huge sense of personal responsibility, and believe that one must take such responsibility for all of their actions. As such I do not have an addiction to any illegal substance, or even any legal drugs. I don't even drink. I have plenty of goals in my life, and the fact that I do not have a job is because I travel with my partner as his passenger in his very well paying job. A decision we came to together, over several months, because any other solution would have meant we rarely spent any time together, hence I will be his navigator and companion.
As to your personal shame, that's your own skeleton to deal with and I hope you find a way to heal, but with the attitude you have no I must simply say good luck. You have a lot of issues to get over and will likely need intense psychological help from a professional. None of them will help you turn straight, even those who claim to. They might help you act straight, but not be straight. There is nothing wrong with being gay, and your past experiences aside many of us are actually very good people. My partner is quite a lot like me actually. Your problem is a shitty attitude and an intense self hatred along with internalized homophobia.
As to gays not being something that has a purpose in nature, just because a purpose is not obviously forthcoming does not mean we do not have one. After all homosexuality is evident in plenty of other species as well. Especially those who engage in sexual actions for pleasure. And when it come to your views that the gays you have met haven't contributed to society you show just how arrogant and opinionated you are to assume something so broad about those you have met. Not to mention you seem to think that those of us you haven't met are incapable of contributing in any meaningful way. That's simply ignorant and rude.
You also seem to have a dislike, or even hatred of the feminine male. I can't really even give you advice there, as I am not a feminine male, nor am I attracted to them. But I have been friends with them, some of them have been really great people. They are no less useful to society because of this. They are no less valid as human beings who deserve love and respect. There are parts of society that look down on them, but frankly, fuck them. They have absolutely no reason to judge or condemn them because of a personality trait.
My advice is this, and only this, get help from a legitimate psychologist who can help you come to terms with yourself and get rid of all the hatred and homophobia. You can live a happy life, and find someone worth caring about if you only try. But you have got to drop this ignorant attitude.
When it comes to forcing views on people the only views I have are that we should all be free to live our lives the way we see fit. As to any moronic gay pride bullshit I have never and will never participate in any of that foolish nonsense that simply does more to set us back than it does to help us in any way. Not to mention I don't find being gay something to be proud of, I was born this way, it's not a fucking achievement. I don't even wear rainbow jewelry, though I have no problem with other people doing so. After all it doesn't hurt anyone and again, we should all be free to live our lives as we see fit.
I have a huge sense of personal responsibility, and believe that one must take such responsibility for all of their actions. As such I do not have an addiction to any illegal substance, or even any legal drugs. I don't even drink. I have plenty of goals in my life, and the fact that I do not have a job is because I travel with my partner as his passenger in his very well paying job. A decision we came to together, over several months, because any other solution would have meant we rarely spent any time together, hence I will be his navigator and companion.
As to your personal shame, that's your own skeleton to deal with and I hope you find a way to heal, but with the attitude you have no I must simply say good luck. You have a lot of issues to get over and will likely need intense psychological help from a professional. None of them will help you turn straight, even those who claim to. They might help you act straight, but not be straight. There is nothing wrong with being gay, and your past experiences aside many of us are actually very good people. My partner is quite a lot like me actually. Your problem is a shitty attitude and an intense self hatred along with internalized homophobia.
As to gays not being something that has a purpose in nature, just because a purpose is not obviously forthcoming does not mean we do not have one. After all homosexuality is evident in plenty of other species as well. Especially those who engage in sexual actions for pleasure. And when it come to your views that the gays you have met haven't contributed to society you show just how arrogant and opinionated you are to assume something so broad about those you have met. Not to mention you seem to think that those of us you haven't met are incapable of contributing in any meaningful way. That's simply ignorant and rude.
You also seem to have a dislike, or even hatred of the feminine male. I can't really even give you advice there, as I am not a feminine male, nor am I attracted to them. But I have been friends with them, some of them have been really great people. They are no less useful to society because of this. They are no less valid as human beings who deserve love and respect. There are parts of society that look down on them, but frankly, fuck them. They have absolutely no reason to judge or condemn them because of a personality trait.
My advice is this, and only this, get help from a legitimate psychologist who can help you come to terms with yourself and get rid of all the hatred and homophobia. You can live a happy life, and find someone worth caring about if you only try. But you have got to drop this ignorant attitude.
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(July 21, 2012 at 12:31 am)cato123 Wrote:(July 21, 2012 at 12:22 am)C.W. Sims Wrote: I for one, as a homo, must say that if he was a homo, then he had to have looked fabulous on that cross. Nearly naked, body all ripped, oh wait.... yeah, never mind. I'm gonna just stop right there before I offend anyone.
I have a certain distaste for the emoticons, and particularly despise the laughing/rolling dude when used in response to one's own statement, but.....
Holy fuck that was funny! "Nearly naked, body all ripped,....". Oh, fuck me. I'm still laughing but can no longer piss myself since I've emptied the tank.
