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Coping with death
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Coping with death
Y'know, sometimes I kinda envy the religious people of the world.

A friend recently died and there's a memorial tomorrow for him. It struck me how 'gone' he is. I mean, if I was a Christian, I could take comfort my belief that he's in heaven. The same would apply to any other religious belief system, really, as long as it includes some form of afterlife. I don't see any evidence that any afterlife exists so instead of being able to take comfort that he's out there somewhere, he's just 'gone.' I actually wish I could take comfort in believing in an afterlife, but I can't make myself believe an unsubstantiated lie.

Does anyone here have any ideas on how to take comfort in a friend's death?
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Coping with death - by TaraJo - August 29, 2012 at 12:19 am
RE: Coping with death - by Minimalist - August 29, 2012 at 12:21 am
RE: Coping with death - by Jackalope - August 29, 2012 at 12:52 am
RE: Coping with death - by Erinome - August 29, 2012 at 2:28 am
RE: Coping with death - by tangobunny - August 29, 2012 at 11:54 pm
RE: Coping with death - by KichigaiNeko - August 29, 2012 at 6:13 am
RE: Coping with death - by festive1 - August 29, 2012 at 11:36 am
RE: Coping with death - by Cinjin - August 29, 2012 at 11:36 am
RE: Coping with death - by TaraJo - August 29, 2012 at 11:38 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Cinjin - August 30, 2012 at 1:13 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Angenlina star - August 29, 2012 at 3:35 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Faith No More - August 29, 2012 at 6:00 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Anomalocaris - August 29, 2012 at 7:43 pm
RE: Coping with death - by padraic - August 29, 2012 at 7:49 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Angrboda - August 29, 2012 at 8:09 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Norfolk And Chance - August 30, 2012 at 6:32 pm
RE: Coping with death - by Godschild - September 2, 2012 at 5:18 am

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