(September 12, 2012 at 9:39 am)TaraJo Wrote:(September 12, 2012 at 9:26 am)Fryslân Wrote: So you don't think pedophiles are the way they are because they are born that way? Correct me if i'm wrong. I thought pedophelia was like homosexuality in the sence that they can't help being that way.
The important difference being that, when two consenting gay adults have sex with each other, it doesn't generally involve either of them manipulating, using, forcing or traumatizing the other.
However, for the sake of discussion, I'll go on.
The sexual attraction isn't the problem; it's how they act on it. If you express this desire by getting off to pictures of children in catalogs or from hentai or erotica that involves children, I'm ok with that. I think it's a much better way to deal with your issues than actually going out and getting one of the kiddies since erotica doesn't involve a victim.
I was genuinley asking a question there and replying with my thoughts on the subject. But it could of been out of place.
